But coming from a school that didn't really have strict deadlines on things, meaning you basically got points for turning it in be it exactly on or before the deadline, or 4 weeks later when you realize your grade needs to be raised up. In high school, being a procrastinator wasn't that big of a deal in my own opinion. I still have a lot of options, and I'm focusing mostly on getting my general education classes out of the way and experiencing as much as possible to narrow my search even further. After I realized my uncertainty would only make me more anxious for my future, I went to the Career Center where I narrowed my search by finding majors and jobs that not only fit who I am, but who I want to be. She picked almost all my classes for me because I simply no longer had any clue what I wanted to take. This year my advisor had to practically drag me through the process of selecting my courses. I even had which courses I would take when planned so that there was no confusion I would graduate on time. I knew exactly what I would be doing in the future and had a plan set up for study abroad.
Last year at advising with my French advisor, I came fully prepared with my whole scheduled planned to a t.
We support you and just want the very best for you.Īnyone looking at me or talking to me could see the marked difference in how secure I felt about the future. Even if you don't think that we are here to help you, I assure you that we are. If you want to scream, then do it! (Though maybe into a pillow so your dorm neighbors don't hear!) Me and the rest of your friends will all be there to guide you and help you through whatever emotions you are experiencing. Don't bottle them up! If you feel the need to cry, then just cry. You are probably feeling so many emotions right now from confused, to hurt, to angry, to just plain sad. This boy is missing out on one of the greatest girls in the world, and that is truly his loss. Try not to pity yourself or put the blame on you, because you are not the problem. Try to think of this as a learning experience and try to take the good out of the situation instead of the bad. I know this is a cliche, but everything happens for a reason. It hurts me to see you this way, and there is not a person in this world that deserves to feel the heartbreak of a breakup, but especially not you. Please understand that I feel the same pain that you do.
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